Dear Abby,
You have printed several letters about inheritances, but I haven't seen one like mine. I am 42, and my brother, "Chet," is 44. We both have families and live in different states. When our mother died years ago, our maternal grandmother blamed my father and was difficult to be around. Consequently, we lost touch for several years. When I was older, I initiated contact with Grandma and tried to stay close. Chet, however, had no interest in a relationship with her. Three years ago, Grandma passed away, leaving her entire estate to me, excluding Chet completely. I was surprised to learn Grandma was rather well off. I had no idea she had any money, and neither did Chet. Chet assumed I would share the inheritance with him, but I didn't. He has refused to speak to me since. Even if Chet and I start speaking again, the drastic change in our lifestyles would forever remind him that he didn't get Grandma's money. I miss my brother, but I don't feel I should have to give him any of my inheritance. After all, he chose not to have a relationship with Grandma, and she specifically excluded him from her will. Was I wrong to keep the money for myself? Is it too late to fix this?
-- Brotherless Out West
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